Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Eharmony

So I signed up for Eharmony and had my first date from it last week. Sorry I didn't blog sooner but I went on vacation. So he was a super sweet guy. In our emails before hand he had asked a lot of my favorites. So he showed up at the door with gerber daisies....my favorite flowers. He opened all the doors for me and led me in the rooms etc. He was a perfect gentleman. It was really great. But I am not sure what I think... so I don't know whether I should go out with him again or not. I haven't decided. So we went out to dinner and then a movie, he took me to Bride Wars, definitely trying to win points. Then as we were leaving the movie he rubbed his eye and lost his contact. He found it for a second and then lost it again. It wasn't even like I could really assist him in looking for it because it fell into his lap. AWKWARD! so then he couldn't really see and was trying to drive. So I told him I would run him home so he could get his glasses and then he could drive me home. He finally agreed cause he couldn't see. So I ended up driving him home to Bountiful and then he drove me back. So it was kind of humorous. He wanted to kiss me at least I think so, but I wasn't there so he kissed me on the forehead. He was a super nice guy and I had a good time but I don't know that I feel it. So I also have to retract what I have told to a lot of people. I have said that if a guy wants to kiss me I am going to kiss him. That didn't happen. So I guess I will kiss a guy sometimes but not all the time... who knows. Oh the joys... nice guy, great date, not really sure. So I think I am done.... dang.

3 comments:

eHarmony_jack said...

Sounds like the first date didn't go as planned, but it was great that the two of you were able to roll with the punches. Also, though sparks didn't fly, you still thought it was a good date. I hope you will consider giving him another shot and spending more time together before deciding your date isn't "The One". On our Success Stories page, http://www.eharmony.com/success, quite a few successful members share that they were surprised by who their special someone turned out to be and so may you. Also, if you would like input from other eHarmony members, I encourage you to visit our free discussion board at http://advice.eharmony.com/.I look forward to reading your future updates.

Sausha said...

Sister...I have to say go out with him again. If you find a guy who treats you well and that you have a good time with, why wouldn't you give him a second chance. I'm not saying you have to marry him, but just try it.

Raven said...

Yeah, definately go out with him again. It will be a good experience for you....it's good for us to spend time with men who treat us how they should. I think it helps us to have higher standards for ourselves in the long run.